Unlocking the Mind: New Research Sheds Light on Adult ADHD

SouthEnd Psychiatry proudly acknowledges September as ADHD Awareness Month. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is often thought of as a childhood condition, but recent research reveals that it continues to impact millions of adults worldwide. ADHD in adults can manifest in different ways than in children, often making it harder to diagnose and treat. However, groundbreaking studies are now offering fresh insights into how this condition affects adults and what can be done to manage it effectively. At SouthEnd, we are excited to share this new research with you.

The Reality of Adult ADHD

While many assume that ADHD is something children “grow out of,” new research indicates that approximately 60% of children diagnosed with ADHD carry the condition into adulthood. That’s roughly 4.4% of the adult population in the U.S. alone, according to recent studies. However, many adults remain undiagnosed, attributing their symptoms to stress, anxiety, or other factors.

Common adult ADHD symptoms include difficulty focusing, impulsiveness, restlessness, and challenges with time management. These issues can lead to problems in both personal and professional life, from struggling to complete tasks at work to managing finances or maintaining relationships. Many patients are come to us unaware that the struggles they face could be linked to this condition. Proper diagnosis and treatment by SouthEnd Psych can dramatically improve quality of life, helping individuals manage their symptoms and succeed in both personal and professional settings.

New Findings and Treatments

Recent research has shown that ADHD in adults may not be as rare as previously thought, with many cases going unrecognized for years. Studies highlight that adult ADHD can manifest in less obvious ways, such as chronic procrastination, emotional dysregulation, and trouble following through on tasks. Importantly, these findings emphasize the need for better screening tools tailored specifically to adults.

On the treatment front, researchers are focusing on a combination of behavioral therapy, medication, and lifestyle adjustments. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) has shown promising results in helping adults manage ADHD-related issues, like impulsive decision-making and emotional regulation. Additionally, newer non-stimulant medications are being explored, offering alternatives for those who do not respond well to traditional ADHD treatments.

Moving Forward

As more research emerges, it’s clear that ADHD is not just a childhood disorder. For adults struggling with focus, impulsivity, or organization, this new wave of research offers hope. Understanding that ADHD can be managed with the right tools and support is crucial to living a more balanced, fulfilling life.

Are you struggling right now? Our team at SouthEnd is here and ready to help. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

The Silent Crisis: Suicide and the Vital Role of Community Support

Suicide is a complex and deeply troubling issue that affects millions of people around the world. It is a leading cause of death, particularly among young adults, and leaves behind a ripple effect of pain and loss for families, friends, and communities. We at SouthEnd Psychiatry understand that while the causes of suicide are multifaceted, involving a combination of mental health struggles, life stressors, and sometimes a sense of hopelessness, one critical factor in prevention is the role of community support.

Understanding Suicide: A Global Challenge

Suicide is often the result of a convergence of factors, including mental illness (such as depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder), substance abuse, trauma, and severe life stressors like financial problems, relationship issues, or chronic illness. In many cases, individuals who are contemplating suicide feel isolated, believing that they are alone in their pain or that their situation is hopeless.

Despite its prevalence, suicide remains a taboo subject, often shrouded in stigma and misunderstanding. This stigma can prevent people from seeking help, further isolating those who are already struggling. It is essential to break this silence and foster open, compassionate conversations about mental health and suicide prevention.

The Power of Community: A Lifeline for Those in Need

Community support plays a crucial role in suicide prevention. Strong, supportive communities can provide individuals with the connections, resources, and encouragement they need to navigate difficult times. Here’s how community can make a difference:

  1. Creating a Sense of Belonging: Feeling connected to others is a fundamental human need. Communities that foster inclusivity, empathy, and understanding can help individuals feel valued and supported, reducing feelings of isolation and loneliness.
  2. Providing Emotional Support: Having someone to talk to can be life-saving. Friends, family, and community members who offer a listening ear without judgment can help those struggling with suicidal thoughts feel understood and less alone.
  3. Raising Awareness and Reducing Stigma: Communities that actively promote mental health awareness and openly discuss suicide can help reduce the stigma associated with seeking help. Education and outreach programs can empower individuals to recognize the signs of suicidal behavior in others and encourage them to intervene.
  4. Connecting People to Resources: Communities are often gateways to essential resources, such as mental health services, crisis hotlines, and support groups. By knowing where to turn for help, individuals in crisis are more likely to access the support they need.
  5. Encouraging Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Communities can promote activities and environments that encourage healthy coping mechanisms, such as physical exercise, creative outlets, and mindfulness practices. These activities can help individuals manage stress and emotional pain more effectively.
  6. Building Resilience: Through shared experiences and collective support, communities can help individuals build resilience, teaching them how to navigate life’s challenges and bounce back from adversity.

How to Foster a Supportive Community

  • Start the Conversation: Encourage open dialogue about mental health and suicide prevention. By talking openly, you can help break down the stigma and make it easier for others to seek help.
  • Offer Support and Listen: Be present for those around you. Sometimes, simply listening and showing empathy can make a huge difference to someone in need.
  • Educate Yourself and Others: Learn about the signs of suicide and how to respond if someone you know is struggling. Share this knowledge with your community to empower others to help as well.
  • Promote Mental Health Resources: Share information about local mental health services, hotlines, and support groups. Make it easy for people to find help when they need it.
  • Create Safe Spaces: Whether it’s a physical location or a virtual group, creating spaces where people feel safe to express their feelings and seek support can be incredibly valuable.

The Lifesaving Impact of Community

Suicide is a preventable tragedy, but it requires the collective effort of communities to create a supportive environment where individuals feel safe to seek help. By fostering connections, reducing stigma, and promoting awareness, communities can play a vital role in saving lives and supporting those in need. Together, we can make a difference and provide hope to those who may be struggling in silence.

Are you struggling right now? Our team at SouthEnd is here and ready to help. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

The Double-Edged Sword of Social Media: Unveiling Its Impact on Mental Health

In today’s digitally connected world, social media has become an integral part of daily life for millions of people. Platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok offer numerous benefits, including the ability to stay connected with friends and family, share experiences, and access information quickly. However, the pervasive use of social media also raises concerns about its impact on mental health. This month, SouthEnd Psychiatry explores the multifaceted effects of social media on mental well-being, highlighting both the positive and negative aspects.

Positive Impacts of Social Media on Mental Health

That’s right, it’s not all bad. Let’s first shed light on three positive ways social media is impacting our society.

  1. Connection and Support: Social media allows individuals to maintain relationships, even across long distances. It provides a platform for people to share their struggles and receive support, which can be particularly beneficial for those dealing with mental health issues. Online support groups and communities offer a sense of belonging and can be a vital resource for individuals seeking understanding and empathy.
  2. Awareness and Education: Social media plays a significant role in raising awareness about mental health issues. Campaigns, personal stories, and informational content shared on these platforms help destigmatize mental health conditions and encourage people to seek help. Increased visibility and dialogue around mental health can lead to greater acceptance and understanding.
  3. Access to Resources: Many mental health organizations and professionals use social media to disseminate valuable information, coping strategies, and resources. This easy access to expert advice and support can empower individuals to take proactive steps in managing their mental health.

Negative Impacts of Social Media on Mental Health

Now, we turn our attention to the aspects of social media that are raising BIG alarms here at SouthEnd. 

  1. Comparison and Self-Esteem: One of the most significant negative effects of social media is the tendency for users to compare themselves to others. The curated and often idealized portrayals of life on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and envy. Constant comparison can contribute to depression and anxiety, particularly among young people.
  2. Cyberbullying: The anonymity and reach of social media can facilitate cyberbullying, which can have severe consequences for mental health. Victims of online harassment may experience increased anxiety, depression, and in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts. The pervasive nature of social media means that negative interactions can follow individuals wherever they go, making it difficult to escape.
  3. Addiction and Time Management: Social media can be highly addictive, leading to excessive use that interferes with daily life. Spending too much time on social media can result in neglect of real-world relationships and responsibilities, leading to feelings of isolation and loneliness. Additionally, the disruption of sleep patterns due to late-night social media use can negatively impact mental health.
  4. Misinformation and Negative Content: The spread of misinformation and exposure to negative content on social media can exacerbate mental health issues. False or misleading information about health, politics, or other important topics can create confusion and stress. Furthermore, exposure to graphic or distressing content can trigger anxiety and other emotional responses.

Balancing the Scales: Mitigating Negative Effects

While social media has its drawbacks, there are ways to mitigate its negative impact on mental health:

  1. Mindful Use: Being mindful of social media use can help individuals avoid the pitfalls of excessive screen time and negative content. Setting time limits and taking regular breaks from social media can improve mental well-being.
  2. Curating Feeds: Following positive, uplifting accounts and unfollowing or muting those that cause stress or negativity can create a healthier social media experience. Engaging with content that inspires and supports mental health can make a significant difference.
  3. Digital Detoxes: Periodic digital detoxes, where individuals take a break from social media, can help reset their relationship with these platforms. This break can reduce stress and allow for more time spent on offline activities and relationships.
  4. Seeking Professional Help: If social media use is negatively impacting mental health, seeking the help of a mental health professional can provide strategies and support to manage its effects.

Our SouthEnd Team is Here to Help

By understanding the potential risks and taking proactive steps to mitigate them, individuals can harness the positive aspects of social media while protecting their mental well-being. Are you struggling right now? Our team at SouthEnd is here and ready to help. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

Debunking Myths Around BIPOC Mental Health

Talking about mental health has been considered almost taboo for decades in BIPOC communities. It is our focus to raise awareness and help affirm the positive affects of mental health support. Let’s dive into five common myths (shared by Mental Health America) that may exist around this topic.

Myth #1: “Talking about my feelings and needing help is a sign of weakness.”

It’s normal to need support from time to time and talking with others is a great way to get that. Some people in BIPOC communities might believe that being “strong” means they don’t face stress or emotional struggles and can just keep moving forward after a traumatic event. Others may feel that the challenges they face aren’t anyone else’s business. However, being vulnerable about how you are feeling and accepting help when you need it requires a great deal of strength. By speaking up about your feelings and needs, you set an example for others to tend to their own mental and emotional health.

Myth #2: “What happens in the family should stay in the family.”

Family is important to many. Depending on your preferences or how you grew up, you might believe that sharing challenges going on within the family is inappropriate. You may have been taught that family concerns should stay “behind closed doors” or that you shouldn’t “air your dirty laundry in public.” Some may also have been taught that seeking mental health care would bring shame to their family.
However, sharing your feelings and experiences with friends or professionals you trust can be extremely valuable to you and your family. You might learn healthy coping or communication skills that would benefit you, but would also positively impact your family dynamic. Because we are all interconnected, anything you do to take care of yourself naturally helps take care of your family.

Myth #3: “Therapy is for ‘crazy’ people.”

Therapy is for everyone. No matter what stage of life you are in, and wherever you are in your mental health journey, talking to a therapist who understands you can be extremely beneficial. Therapy can help you view yourself with more compassion, improve your relationships, set goals for yourself and so much more. BIPOC celebrities, such as Charlamagne tha God and many others, have opened up about the positive impact therapy has had on their lives. BIPOC athletes Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka shared that therapy was important for them after taking a break from competitions to take care of their mental health. Celebrity or not, therapy is something we can allbenefit from as humans since we are hard-wired for connection.

Myth #4: “Mental illness is a white people problem.”

Just like we all have physical health and sometimes get sick, we all have mental health and can experience mental health conditions. According to recent statistics, 17% of Black/African Americans, 15% of Latine/Hispanic Americans, 13% of Asian Americans, and 23% of First Nations people live with a mental health condition.While the field of psychology is growing more diverse; the majority of psychologists in the U.S. are white. With this in mind, it can seem as though going to therapy is only something white people do. It is important for people from BIPOC communities to receive culturally responsive care when in therapy. Therapists providing culturally responsive care will work to understand your cultural background, validate your experiences of discrimination and stigma, and also apologize for any communication errors that cause harm. 

Myth #5: “If you’re struggling, you aren’t praying enough.”

Struggling with your mental health does not mean that you are being spiritually tested or punished for your sins. We all need support with our mental health sometimes.Spiritual support can come in many forms, such as the people and resources that are put in your path to help you heal. Working with a mental health professional can supplement other sources of spiritual or emotional support, and many therapists are also spiritually-minded. Finding someone who shares your religion or recognizes the importance of faith in your life can make your healing experience more personal and effective.

SouthEnd Psychiatry wants you to be well and to feel well in life. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

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What Does Mental Health Look Like for Men

June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month and SouthEnd Psychiatry is raising awareness for this less publicized yet critically vital topic.

As Healthline.com writes, there’s still a stigma around men’s mental health, making it more difficult for males of all ages to reach out for help. Some men might still feel as if people expect them to hide their emotions and “man up,” or be strong for others. Having or acknowledging a mental health condition is still seen as a sign of weakness or lack of masculinity among some men.

Mental Health America (MHA) adds that more than six million American men experience symptoms of depression annually and most go undiagnosed. Let’s dive into what causes those stressors.

Stressful Transitions

An article published by Medical News Today states that situational stressors play a major role in suicide deaths among males, many of whom do not have a documented mental health history, according to a 2021 analysis from the CDC. These stressors can include anything from relationship troubles to arguments, but all indicate a need for “support during stressful transitions.”

Stumbling Blocks for Men of Color

The National Alliance on Mental Health reports that just 1 in 3 Black adults with mental illness receives treatment, despite the fact that they are more likely to experience emotional distress than white adults. Generational racial trauma and violence against people of color, as played out in the news media, intensify this distress.

Unlikely Symptoms

A recent study conducted by the National Institute of Mental Health, found that symptoms of depression in males can be physiological, such as a racing heart, digestive issues, or headaches. Males may be more likely to see their doctor about physical symptoms than emotional symptoms.The organization also notes that men who experience depression may self-medicate with alcohol and other substances. However, this can exacerbate their issues and put them at risk of other health conditions.

What You Can Do

While it is becoming more and more acceptable for men to seek therapy, it is vital that we continue advocating for men’s mental health. Talk to your male loved ones. Check in with them. If they are experiencing depression, anger, anxiety or any other stressor, SouthEnd is here to help.

SouthEnd Psychiatry wants you to be well and to feel well in life. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

Learn. Act. Advocate.

This month, we spotlight May’s Mental Health Month and recognize the importance of mental health and its impact on our personal and professional lives. This month is dedicated to prioritizing our well-being and promoting open conversations about mental health.

This year’s theme for Mental Health Month is “Where to Start: Mental Health in a Changing World”. Mental Health America gives us three areas to start: learn, act and advocate.

LEARN: 

To fully understand how the world around us affects mental health, it is important to know what factors are at play – some of which an individual can change, such as screen time, and others that may be outside of their control, like access to basic resources or current events. Social drivers of health include economic status, education, your neighborhood, social inclusion, and access to resources like nutritious food, health care, green space, and transportation. 

All of these factors can have a far-reaching impact on not just your physical health, but also your mental health. Loneliness, current events, technology, and social drivers are having an impact on the mental well-being of Americans, but there are protective measures that can prevent mental health conditions from developing or keep symptoms from becoming worse or severe.

ACT: 

There are many ways to take action – big and small – to improve mental health and increase resiliency, regardless of the situations you are dealing with. Knowing when to turn to friends, family, and coworkers when you are struggling with life’s challenges can help improve your mental health. Change is hard, but it’s unavoidable in life. It’s important to find coping skills that can help you process these changes, prioritize your mental well-being, and accept the situations in life that we can’t control. 

ADVOCATE: 

“Advocacy” doesn’t always mean talking to a government official or local leader. There are things everyone can do to improve the way mental health conditions are perceived and treated. Integrating mental health care into primary care, and providing mental health programs in schools, workplaces, and communities can improve the well-being of everyone. In an election year, it’s especially important to understand where candidates stand on mental health issues. We urge everyone to vote with mental health in mind.

Let’s make May a month of mental health awareness, support, and action. SouthEnd Psychiatry wants you to be well and to feel well in life. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

3 Stress-Reducing Coping Skills

April is Stress Awareness Month. Learning to cope with our stress and finding healthy ways to deal with these situations can go a long way in living a healthy and positive life. Let’s take a look at a few things we can do to reduce stress and anxiety.

1. Avoid the Panic

Overthinking refers to the excessive and repetitive thinking or dwelling on a particular topic, problem, or situation. We can start to change these habits by asking ourselves if these concerns are based on facts or assumptions. Practicing mindfulness and developing a trusted support system can help break patterns of overthinking.

2. Be You

Take some time to get in touch with yourself, to identify and reconnect with what makes you… YOU! Make a list of some of the values you have and how you can still carry those in your community. If you are a naturally generous person then KEEP BEING GENEROUS to people around you. Do you have a gift of making people laugh? Then really grab hold of it and spread some cheer in your neighborhood. Embracing these things about yourself will help keep you grounded and out of too much negative thinking. 

3. Self-Care

What is refreshing to you? Recharging? What gives you energy? The activities you come up with are a great place to start with self-care. Remember, it is difficult to encourage, support, be present for your relationships if your tank is empty. Sleep is well-documented to reduce stress levels so don’t feel bad about a quick afternoon nap from time to time if it leads to a better you! Be intentional about making time for yourself.

Here are a few other things you can consider doing to keep anxiety and stress at manageable levels:

  • Breathing exercises + Mediation
  • Journaling
  • Spend time in nature
  • Stay connected (isolation often leads us to “stinking thinking”!)

SouthEnd Psychiatry wants you to be well and to feel well in life. We invite you to start a conversation with us, on your terms, in-person or online and want you to know you’re not alone.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

What is Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and How Can it Help Me?

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a form of effective psychological treatment for depression, anxiety disorders, alcohol and drug use problems, marital problems, eating disorders, and severe mental illness. 

Numerous research studies suggest that CBT leads to significant improvement in functioning and quality of life. In many studies, CBT has been demonstrated to be as effective as, or more effective than, other forms of psychological therapy or psychiatric medications, referenced at ada.org.

According to the American Psychological Association, the core concepts of CBT include:

  • psychological issues are partly based on unhelpful ways of thinking
  • psychological issues are partly based on learned patterns of behavior
  • those living with these issues can improve with better coping mechanisms and management to help relieve their symptoms

Healthline provides some of the most popular techniques used in CBT:

  • SMART goals. SMART goals are specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and time-limited.
  • Guided discovery and questioning. By questioning the assumptions you have about yourself or your current situation, your therapist can help you learn to challenge these thoughts and consider different viewpoints.
  • Journaling. You might be asked to jot down negative beliefs that come up during the week and the positive ones you can replace them with.
  • Self-talk. Your therapist may ask what you tell yourself about a certain situation or experience and challenge you to replace negative or critical self-talk with compassionate, constructive self-talk.
  • Cognitive restructuring. This involves looking at any cognitive distortions affecting your thoughts — such as black-and-white thinking, jumping to conclusions, or catastrophizing — and beginning to unravel them.
  • Thought recording. In this technique, you’ll record thoughts and feelings experienced during a specific situation, then come up with unbiased evidence supporting your negative belief and evidence against it. You’ll use this evidence to develop a more realistic thought.
  • Positive activities. Scheduling a rewarding activity each day can help increase overall positivity and improve your mood. Some examples might be buying yourself fresh flowers or fruit, watching your favorite movie, or taking a picnic lunch to the park.
  • Situation exposure. This involves listing situations or things that cause distress, in order of the level of distress they cause, and slowly exposing yourself to these things until they lead to fewer negative feelings. Systematic desensitization is a similar technique where you’ll learn relaxation techniques to help you cope with your feelings in a difficult situation.

How CBT Can Help

Healthline states that typical CBT treatment often involves the following:

  • recognizing how inaccurate thinking can worsen problems
  • learning new problem-solving skills
  • gaining confidence and a better understanding and appreciation of your self-worth
  • learning how to face fears and challenges
  • using role play and calming techniques when faced with potentially challenging situations

The goal of these techniques is to replace unhelpful or self-defeating thoughts with more encouraging and realistic ones.

CBT can help with a range of things, including:

  • depression
  • substance misuse
  • post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  • anxiety disorders, including panic disorder and phobia
  • obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
  • schizophrenia
  • bipolar disorder
  • eating disorders

CBT can also help with:

  • grief and loss
  • chronic pain
  • insomnia
  • relationship difficulties like a breakup or divorce
  • a serious health diagnosis, such as cancer

If you are interested in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, SouthEnd Psychiatry is here for you. Our amazing team of licensed therapists are ready to walk along side you in this journey. 

Contact Southend Psych today to inquire about appointment availability and get you on your way to a better place.

Southend Psychiatry 

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What Mental Wellness Looks Like in 2024

As we recognize and raise awareness for Mental Wellness Month this January, we would like to take a look at what mental wellness looks like in 2024. Times have changed. I think we can all agree on that. COVID has changed the behavior of society in so many ways. Racial tension and social disparities are on the rise. Economic stress is affecting all walks of life. This is the day we are living in. 

We want to recognize these as real triggers for most of us. As we embark on this new year, it is so important to acknowledge these issues and stressors and be intentional to keep ourselves healthy and whole. A few ways we can do this is through mindfulness, rest and connection.

Mindfulness

The term “mindfulness” is becoming more and more widely known. As stated by discoverymood.com, practicing mindfulness is about being aware and accepting at the same time. We often pride ourselves on staying busy and thinking ahead. Mindfulness challenges us to show up fully in every area of our lives. It is the embodiment of living in the moments. 

Check in on yourself. Where is your stress level? Are you feeling hopeless or helpless? If so, it is critical to take action by calling a friend, mentor or a licensed professional like the team at Southend Psychiatry.

Rest

Allowing ourselves to rest involves our mind, body and spirit. Resting isn’t just about getting a proper eight hours of sleep each night or avoiding your phone and electronics before bed. It is also giving yourself little breaks throughout the day. Meditation is a great tool to help slow the mind, release anxious thoughts and breathe deeply. This lowers our cortisol levels and resets the body with just a few minutes of commitment. 

Developing a meditation practice not only has been shown to help lengthen our attention span and reduce age-related memory loss but may also help fight addictions, control pain and decrease blood pressure.

Connection

We are social creatures… even those that would consider themselves as an introvert. Our spirit needs connection. It is a way to feel heard and understood. Connection gives us a sense of belonging. executive.berkeley.edu/ says that because social connection is so hard-wired into human behavior, it makes sense that our relationships (or lack thereof) significantly influence our well-being. 

Connections can be just as important to physical and mental health as exercise and healthy eating. Research has shown that the psychological and physical health benefits of social contact are so great that they can even outweigh the harmful effects of other risk factors and boost life expectancy.

As you embark on this new year, we want to encourage you to be intentional about keeping yourself mentally well. If you need help or guidance, SouthEnd Psychiatry is here for you. Our amazing team of licensed therapists are ready to walk along side you in this journey. 

Contact Southend Psych today to inquire about appointment availability and get you on your way to a better place.

Southend Psychiatry 

Schedule your appointment today with one of our SouthEnd Psychiatry clinicians. Book your appointment online or call 1-800-632-7969 to get started today.

5 Ways to Create Healthy Boundaries with Family

The holidays are here which for many means A LOT of potential family time. So, let’s look at five ways to set healthy boundaries ahead of the holiday season. 

Boundary issues are the most difficult to deal with when it comes to family. 

According to Terri Cole, author of The Boundary Boss, our boundaries are made up of our preferences, desires, limits, and deal-breakers. Think of your boundaries as your own personal rules of engagement.

Boundaries can be uncomfortable and even painful for some…until you practice the skill. Remember, you don’t need to sacrifice your identity in order to receive love or be accepted. Know what you will or will not tolerate from others. Draw the line and enforce it.

Here are five ways to establish those healthy boundaries:

  1. Define what your boundaries are. What will you tolerate or not tolerate in your life? What behaviors will you accept or not accept from family members? 
  2. Clearly communicate your boundaries.  This is particularly important for the people closest to you. Give them the chance to honor your preferences.
  3. Follow through. If someone crosses your boundaries, do what you said you would. Be compassionate, but be firm. This might be a new side of you that no one has seen before. 
  4. Show the respect you want to receive. Begin to really listen to what others prefer. Lead by example. Honor others boundaries.
  5. Keep loving yourself. It is not mean or selfish to have boundaries. Some will respect them. Others will not. How people treat you is a direct reflection of how you allow them to treat you. 

Boundaries are healthy. Establishing and keeping them is hard work. However, it is worth it!  SouthEnd Psychiatry is here for you. Our amazing team of licensed therapists are ready to walk along side you in this journey. 

Contact Southend Psych today to inquire about appointment availability and get you on your way to a better place.

Southend Psychiatry 

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